How do I identify?

Today is National Coming Out day.

I am bisexual/pansexual. My preferred pronouns are she/her. I’m also fine with they/them, especially if the person doesn’t know me that well.

I consider myself both bisexual and pansexual. I’m attracted to both men and women. I’m also attracted to everything in between. Growing up, as I was figuring out my sexual orientation, bisexual was the only label I knew of for people like me who weren’t attracted to just one gender. It wasn’t until more recently that the label pansexual became more commonly used to describe attraction to all on the gender spectrum. I don’t care what’s between someone’s legs. I’m attracted to who a person is, not what they look like.

Love is love is love is love.